Shriver had 'traumatic' relationship with older coach as a teenager

Former world number three Pam Shriver said she had an "inappropriate and damaging relationship" with her coach which began when she was 17-years-old, and warned that coaching relationships are common in tennis.

In a Telegraph column published on Wednesday, the 22-time Grand Slam doubles champion said she started working with Australian coach Don Candy at the age of nine and he helped her reach the U.S. Open final in 1978 as a 16-year-old.

Shriver said the pair began an affair, which lasted just over five years, when she told the 50-year-old Candy she had fallen in love with him.

"I still have conflicted feelings about Don," Shriver said. "Yes, he and I became involved in a long and inappropriate affair. Yes, he was cheating on his wife. But there was a lot about him that was honest and authentic. And I loved him.

"Even so, he was the grown-up here. He should have been the trustworthy adult... Only after therapy did I start to feel a little less responsible. Now, at last, I've come to realise that what happened is on him."

Shriver added that the relationship with Candy, who died in 2020, impacted her time on court as well as the ability to form normal relationships later in life.

She said the affair ended when she started looking for a new coach, although she kept Candy on as a consultant, and described the following four seasons as the best of her career.

"Don never abused me sexually, but I would say there was emotional abuse. I felt so many horrendous emotions and I felt so alone," Shriver said.

The 59-year-old, who has been working as a broadcaster since retiring from tennis in 1997, said she has seen "dozens of instances" of abusive coaching relationships in tennis in the last four decades.

"I think it's possible to educate