Inside the Cowboys' decision to trade Micah Parsons - ESPN

Additional reporting by Todd Archer, Rob Demovsky, Dan Graziano and Seth Wickersham

THE PIVOTAL MEETING that led to one of the most shocking NFL trades of the past decade occurred on a pleasant North Texas morning in mid-March, five months and a lifetime of ill feelings ahead of any deal being put to paper.

The agenda for the March 18 one-on-one in Dallas Cowboys owner Jerry Jones' office at The Star, the team's headquarters in Frisco, Texas, between Jones and two-time first-team All-Pro pass rusher Micah Parsons remains in question. A source close to Jones says it was Parsons who asked for the meeting, and that the 82-year-old owner always understood the subject to be Parsons' contract. After declaring in February 2024 that he wanted to be a Cowboy «for life,» Parsons had been trying to reach an extension with the team, without success.

«Jerry and Micah had met periodically over the last four years to discuss business and leadership issues,» the source said, noting that the then-25-year-old Parsons viewed Jones as a mentor. «Jerry loved having these discussions with Micah. But the meeting in March wasn't that, despite Micah saying publicly later it was to discuss leadership. Micah told Jerry, 'I want to come in and discuss where we are,' meaning a contract extension. So that was Jerry's expectation.»

A source close to Parsons said this is «absolutely not» true and that Jones called Parsons in for a leadership meeting, only to steer the conversation toward contract talks. The source says Parsons directed Jones to talk details with his agent, David Mulugheta. However the conversation got to a contract extension, both parties acknowledge that it got there.

Over a three-hour meeting, Jones and Parsons discussed numbers,